20th March
I thought this knit piece was effortlessly beautiful, it has a very 3 dimensional and lively surface to it yet still has a very intricate detail, the repetition and stitch patterns gives this piece more depth and balance. This is definitely something I need to keep in mind when creating. I would like to use macrame knot material for hand stitching for added detail to create samples with more depth, interest and complexity.
21st March
When creating my Macrame knots, I have been considering how I can develop them further and push boundaries with them. I like the idea of inserting fabrics and materials into the knots, possibly simple block colours that can add more detail and interest.
20th March
20th March
I'm really drawn to the folds and natural formed pleats that have been created, and could visualise the repeated pattern of this piece could be placed on the body. I also like the green colour with the rustic brown. This gave ideas of how to manipulate the cloths by random pleating and gathering.
21st March
20th March
This is interesting how the knit is used to connect two different pieces, gives it a different textural element and makes me wonder how this could work with macrame knots.
20th March
Overlapping and collage of patterns that are similar to cleaning up products.
21st March
I appreciate the loose and random feeling of this wall sample. This feels very unique and the bright colours work well. I will think carefully about the best colour combinations when creating my samples.
20th March
This is a really exciting and innovative textiles piece. I really like the composition of so many different shapes and elements working together in a sense of harmony. I think the colour choice is a key aspect due to the abstract dimensions and shapes in the sample. There are also a lot of similar shapes that creates a sense of balance. This is all really important to consider when I am creating my samples due to the difference and contrast in my objects I have.
20th March
20th March
When thinking about placement of macrame knots and the ways in which it could be draped over the body, I was interested in designing a high neckline, using a macrame knot detail or even the possibility of different Macrame knots hanging from the neckline.
Sarah Benning- 19th March
This piece makes me think and consider different materials for knots. It also makes me consider if the bigger knots are easier for garment design. It's also interesting how the knotted garment is combined with other simpler garments, which gives inspiration for samples I could place on a garment next to my knots.
19th March- Kate Britain
I felt this piece was really interesting to see how it is draped around the body, with a dramatic colour contrast and rich borders of textural crochet. The colour combination works well together, and the thick wool gives a weighty feel to the design, which I think is bold and attractive. I will consider these aspects in relation to how I can drape my macrame samples to show strength and power in the composition of my designs.
https://i-d.vice.com/en_uk/article/7x55qg/a-decade-of-i-d-covers-lady-gaga-2011
18th March
I really liked the randomness within this piece, the way it is moulded together with plastic. It makes me think of dishwasher tablets due to the bright blue ovals. This piece reminds me to use unusual elements, with a refined selection in order for the piece to be balanced.
18th March
Interesting to think about having gaps in the concrete and different shapes inside. It also makes me think about the delicacy of relationships/ divorce with areas missing in the concrete- almost like gaps/ weak points in a relationship.
18th March
Looking at ideas for samples that would involve repeating sponge and piling it. It is important to consider the colours used.
17th March
Cleaning cloth- This was really beneficial as the colours are kept within my loose cream style and the rough ragged knit is something I've been really drawn to throughout photos, my samples and research. I would have really liked to create a knit sample within this style, I feel this could have looked really interesting as a knitted neck piece. The knit pattern created makes me consider the sizing of the knitting.
Text
designers whos looks are inspired by household items
Macrame Knot Video- 17th March
Video used for Blind Drawing
Ideas for showing miscommunication- 26th feb
Rodarte Fall 2008 Ready to Wear
Looking at ways different styles of knit are combined and contrasted together. Also like the thin and non thick/ whole knit as it seems random representing miscommunication and twisted lines. The colours are relevant as representing my theme of marriage and love/ lust.
Bruce Nauman- 26th feb
Looking contrasting words I could interpret words into my samples that are opposites to show the idea of miscommunication. Also the use of overlapping words and missing bits of words so it is unreadable.
'commentary on life, telling a story with each phrase, reiterating just how fucked up life can be (which may elicit tears, laughter, or blank stares). In the end, One Hundred resonates with all one hundred phrases lit, blindingly beautiful and a little overwhelming. One Hundred Live and Die, like all Nauman work, play with neon and text, a physical space, and human emotion. '
Steven Parrino- 23rd feb
About
Most are afraid of total freedom, of nothingness, of life. You try to control everything, but nature is uncontrollable. It doesn’t matter how you express yourself (words, image, electric guitar), what matters is that you have something to express
monochromes with slashed, torn, or twisted canvases.
Looking at the twisted and contorted similarity in my samples with the acetate and lace, showing juxtaposition and miscommunication as it is all twisted and messed up.
Development
Misscommunication and juxtaposition in my samples
knit and silk , lace
red white
twisted and brought together- contrast.
twisting forms could represent pulling apart, moving and thinking in different ways. links to the problems within relationships- divorce and family split ups also the iea that its easy to begin moving in different directions rather than being drawn together and working out issues together.
Expressing Emotions
Expressing Emotions
Jiyoung Chung
I find that the contrasting elements in this piece remind me of miscommunication. The tangled and crossed over lines going in and out the circles and the bigger holes with thin wire intertwined gives a confusing and complicated aspect.
Fashion & Drugs
Divorce; Infidelity
Top places likely to cheat ( profession wise)
Divorce; Infidelity
Purple Runway- Raise Funds
Vogue takes on Domestic Violence
Women on domestic abuse
loses her self-esteem and self-respect. It is important that we help her see her significance.
Places where there is a lack of respect for women- Uganda
https://www.themuse.com/advice/the-little-black-dress-society-because-abuse-is-never-in-fashion
https://www.marieclaire.co.uk/reports/gender-based-violence-women-677919
Domestic violence and me: ‘You’re fat, ugly and no one will ever love you’
Connections with relationships
The Mental Health Foundation defines relationships as ‘the way in which two or more people are connected, or the state of being connected’. Relationships include the intimate relationships we have with our respective partners, those we form with our parents, siblings and grandparents, and those we form socially with our friends, work colleagues, teachers, healthcare professionals and community.
It is the quality of our relationships that matters. In seeking to combat loneliness and isolation we need to be aware that poor-quality relationships can be toxic and worse for our mental health than being alone. Research shows that people in unhappy or negative relationships have significantly worse outcomes than those who are isolated or have no relationships.
While 86.7% of people report that they had someone to rely on in times of stress2, such as a family member, spouse or friend, we are becoming a society that feels lonelier than we ever have before. This has been reflected in the changing nature of our society.
How we interact and form relationships has changed considerably over the past decade. The evolving family structure, development and reliance on online technologies, longer working hours, and changes in how we define community mean that who we connect with and how we connect may never be the same again.
Recognising the importance of good relationships and defining new ways of developing and maintaining strong social connections is integral to our wellbeing as a nation.
Childhood- how to engage with other people from our parents, families and guardians. We copy the behaviour around us- parents who fight and divorce can have a knock on effect on the children later in life. ‘How we understand and model relationships forms behaviour throughout life’.
The attachment that a child has with its parent or guardian is a central predictor for their mental well being.
‘Changes in family structure and family break ups can impact the child’s ability to create positive bonds and academic attainment , as well as future attitudes to relationships. ‘
Friends and Peers become more significant through a child’s adolescence. Toxic relationships and negative experiences can be more relevant and have a serious impact on young people’s mental health.
‘Family harmony is more predictive of a child’s wellbeing than the family structure itself’
‘Adulthood can be a time of stability- discovering yourself and new relationships there is also a time for key risks for loneliness and isolation can significantly impact us- relationship breakdowns, divorce, poor work life balance, children leaving the family home, retirement and bereavement’ as a result- the relationships we maintain throughout our adult lives can be more important to our mental health than we sometimes realise. Those in a stable relationship can be seen to be healthier, happier and satisfied with life.
Longer working hours, financial difficulties and less time to spend with family have been seen to be some of the most important stress factors. Economic difficulties have a huge strain on relationships and families.
Audrey Jones- Tinder Diaries
Audrey Jones work dissects romance and intimacy. ‘In a series of comics, Jones illustrates the brash, vulgar and downright disgusting messages that are often sent and received on Tinder’
This could show the difference in attitudes towards dating and the way in which romance and finding someone is different. The use of dating apps and social media has given an easier approach and suggestion for quick hook ups and quick bursts of satisfaction. This could also affect trust issues within partners as the ability to send a quick easy text is limitless and the way in which a partner is less coveted due to social media apps like Tinder. People are happy to interact with the opposite sex. Part of a social change has been more sexual promiscuous activity. In the past wasn’t seen to be separate as an activity, but tied to a relationship, love and marriage.
Role of marriage in society diminished, now people divorce more frequently and have multiple relationships increasing the amount of mixed partner families and step siblings.
The Divorce Dress
The Divorce dress: Dress made from annulment papers
Drug Use Within Fashion
10 Artists who tackle Social Problems
Toni Maule- 101 Family Problems
'My work will almost always, revolve around and include my family and our 101 problems. Taking subjects which effect me negatively and producing something positive from them has became a recurring theme within work. I’d like to pretend I’ve had many influences through out my practice, but I hate liars. I definitely have artists who’s work I can relate to and appreciate on some level, but I like to think I discovered my own style and developed it independently. As you can see, I enjoy mediums which have little restriction and one which I can experiment with a great deal. I’m not all that tidy so paint has been a wonderful discovery for me. I like to leave my work open to interpretation and help try to give portraiture the recognition it deserves.'
The cut out and messed up parts of the painting representing family problems. Gives me ideas for removing areas of samples, and creating samples that involve juxtaposition.
Abuse
"Unfortunately, stories like these are the norm. Though we express outrage over domestic violence, society tends to take the side of the abuser, especially if they are a public figure, someone well-liked or someone in a position of power.
The wounds from domestic violence are not always physical, and the silent scars sometimes take longest to fade. Shifting the thinking of the world around what domestic violence looks like or “should” look like is necessary. According to the US Dept. of Justice, 80% of victims do not present with physical scars. Despite this, we concentrate on the 20% because we are a visual people—if I don’t see your pain, your pain does not exist. However, if you turn victims inside out, you will see all the hidden scars they carry. Every 9 to 15 seconds a woman is physically assaulted or killed. Unfortunately, we don’t concentrate on the many other abuses happening every 1-8 seconds, before the assault takes place, because we do not see them as warranting intervention or attention. This is why it can be so difficult for victims without physical injuries from abuse to get the help they deserve."
The first assault in an abuse
https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/the-dynamics-of-abuse-within-families-and-relationships-0130154
What Destroys A Family
Insults and Criticism - Having a sense of individuality is a requirement for a family relationship to develop. Criticism is inevitable and different to insults.
Lack of honesty- honesty important foundation for a long lasting relationship.
Gossip- Can be difficult to maintain the sense of unity. Clear boundary between gossiping and complaining. Based more on facts rather than disagreement.
No acceptance of Individual differences- Own opinions, ideas, beliefs. Good and bad traits within a person. Respect them for what they are and embrace differences without ant toxic attitudes.
Failure to apologise and forgive- There are times when feelings are hurt intentionally or unintentionally. There is also stubbornness that prevents forgiveness and apologising sincerely.
"The message in an apology is clear; admit mistakes and ask for a chance to rebuild the damaged part of the relationship. Shows you acknowledge someones else's right to feel hurt and pain. A sincere apology always deserves sincere forgiveness as well. Forgiveness helps to overcome feelings of disappointment and the desire to punish others. "
https://tranquilmonkey.com/5-toxic-behaviors-destroy-family-relationships/
Mind Map Ideas
Divorce- Miscommunication- Expressing feelings, Financial Problems, Society's effect on relationships, Mental/Physical Health, Drug Abuse.
Communication and expressing feelings. The way in which society has changed the needs and wants.
21st March
This was a slightly different piece I found, the colour tones are slightly more muted which I think is important as the sample has different stitch types and patterns. The repetition in the patterns are important to give the sample more symmetry and focus the viewers eyes. It's interesting how the creater has embedded these different materials and colours to create a pattern. I think they work well because it is repeated, giving each part a sense of purpose. This is something to consider when I'm adding detail/ objects into my cloths/ samples.
21st March
It's really interesting how this sample has many components yet looks balanced and isn't confusing to the eye. I think because of the contrast in scale and the colours being slightly faded at parts it works well as a piece. I would really like to create a bigger sample like this that has many different elements but I think it is important not to combine objects unnecessarily and remember to critique my samples considering what looks and works well together.
20th March
This was a really vibrant piece that immediately caught my eye. I love the textured pattern created by the loop on the edges. The dimensions make this piece really interesting, but I think it is successful due to the repeated pattern created, something to consider for my samples with knots. The colours are all green but different tones which makes each section stand out. This is something i'm definitely going to take forward for my next samples. I will consider if I could create these knot/ knit patterns around and on my cloths, join different cloths together or simply placed for added dimension and texture on top.
21st March
This was unusual and interesting giving a different idea for development of samples by cutting out parts. I have found that because the sponge I am using in my samples is quite small and square, I have been using it as a base for samples and combining from as the starting the point. It would be interesting to experiment and consider changing the sponge shape and inside element.
20th March
Quirky samples in jewellery design, breathtaking and refreshing to view these samples in a more intricate setting and look at them in a different aspect.
20th March
I liked the simple adjustments to the silhouette- ie the loosely gathered/ and side leg details. I feel this works and is more effective due to the complex material and texture used. This is something to consider as my samples are very diverse and complex in colour and texture. The orange trouser piece reminds me of cleaning cloths, that have been deconstructed and reconstructed to make the trousers. This is interesting as I hadn't yet considered taking apart the dish cloths and creating a new one. The neon yellow and blue also makes me think about the cleaning products colours and the window cleaning cloth I've been cutting up for samples. The colours throughout this garment are the same as cleaning items.
20th March
20th March
Moulding dishwasher tablets and sponge.
Maddie Williams- 20th March
This piece reminded me of the sample I had seen previously where plastic and objects are combined together and it is almost as if they are embedded together- which makes me think of life after marriage. It would be interesting to have a plastic garment where my objects are moulded and encapsulated. I can visualise my objects in place of those coloured areas.
20th March
When looking at involving dishwasher tablets in my samples, it's interesting to see the repetition and placement that is created. Futuristic thought of dissolving the tablets on the samples/ dress design- reminds me of Hussein Chalayans (SS 16 ) runway collection which included a dissolving dress.
19th March
I really liked this knitted piece. I'm drawn to the fine delicate detail and slight repetition. It highlights the possibility of dying and knitting some of my dishwasher cloths to create samples, which could then have added objects to give it that 3D dimension, texture and unique aspect.
19th March
This was interesting and relevant to creating samples with my sponge. I am using netting and stitching to contort and wrap the sponge for my samples, and looking at cutting the sponge into smaller pieces and exploring shapes/ dimensions created when using stitching/ netting around the sponge.
Celeste Tesoriero- 19th March
I absolutely love this knitted piece. The simple and Consistent knit throughout, is something that really looks effective, the density of the knit forming the texture is an idea I wish to explore. I really like how the knit becomes looser further down the dress. With the 3rd picture involving another piece, it gives me inspiration and ideas for adding in objects I have found- like hanging dishwasher tablets, sponge, table decorations.
18th March
This is important to look at smaller objects within the concrete.
18th March
When thinking about the materials and objects, concrete was a very interesting material to think about. Concrete would be exciting due to the concept of building materials- which is dominant in married life. Also thinking about showing concrete samples & deeper into concrete, the idea of things being sedimented together. It would be interesting to create a collection of mini-concrete samples that have the different objects used in every day married life- ie dishwasher tablets, tea, cleaning cloths. I feel this would be really exciting, however as I want to finish my project in a fashion sense concrete seems an unsuitable sample to progress onto body design and development.
17th March
Here I considered whether to fully tighten the knot or to keep it loose so you can see the tangled rope. However I question whether this would look as refined with a thinner, more insubstantial material. A loose knot design could look really interesting next to a tighter pulled knot, draping over the body.
Macrame Knots- 17th March
This was really helpful to look at the different types of Macrame knots and which knot would work best being combined with other samples. It gave me insight to whether I create a selection as one piece. This also made me think about the type of material to use for the Macrame knot as I am limited in the amount and type of rope i have available etc.
sat 11th
sat 11th
“High Fashion” Looks From Household Items Out Of Quarantine Boredom
household- fitting and works well as i can only use what i have around the house that is no longer in use.
whether when designing i could actually take the silhoutte of these items rather than the content.
Tuesday 31st March
The objects I'm going to look at will be for confetti- paper and tissue. Tying the knot- String, Organic Cottons. For everyday married life- sponge, baby wipes, cleaning cloths, Tea, Coffee, Furniture Instructions, Moving Boxes, Cleaning products, Pottery- Wedding Gifts, Dog bowl, biscuits. Wedding Rings- Wire, Aluminium Wire. First Home- Wood, Brick, Concrete.
Monday 30th March
History behind wedding symbols.
Plan to create samples using these items.
Samples based on all the natural historical items.,
wedding cake- wheat
White wedding gowns became the rage during the reign of Queen Victoria of England, and white was thought to represent modesty and purity for the bride.
A wedding tradition as common as the white gown is the bouquet.
The bride was hit over the head with the cake to make her fertile. Wedding guests were encouraged to gather the pieces of cake as they fell and keep them for good luck.
as rosemary and lavender, along with garlic, to ward off evil spirits and mask body odour. Orange blossoms were also popular, and represented fertility.
Wedding veils were used by Roman and Greek brides as part of the arranged marriage process. Since most marriages were arranged for purposes of increasing a family's wealth or power, grooms were not allowed to see their brides until just prior to the marriage. The veils were used so the groom could not view the bride before the wedding and refuse to marry her if he did not like her looks. Another interpretation is that the veil helped conceal the bride so evil spirits would not know whom to curse.
Something Old, Something New
The old saying "Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue" is actually a superstition that started in medieval Europe as a means to repel evil spirits. Something old was a tie to your life prior to marriage. Something new represented the joining in marriage to a new spouse. Borrowing something from a currently wedded couple was thought to provide the new bride and groom good luck in their marriage. Something blue worn by the bride represented purity and fidelity.
Tossing Rice and Tying the Knot
Tossing rice was a tradition started during pagan festivals as a wish for bountiful harvests. If the crops had been plentiful, grains such as wheat were thrown and if the crops had been bad, rice was thrown instead. The wedding guests also threw the rice to encourage high rates of fertility since it took many children to work the land.
Tying the knot refers to the ancient Roman custom of unmarried women wearing a chastity girdle closed with a series of knots. The groom would have to untie all the knots to consummate the marriage.
Symbolism of Wedding Rings
The practice of wearing wedding rings is thought to have started with the Egyptians in 3000 BC. The first rings were made of braided hemp and Romans later constructed their wedding rings of iron. Today's rings are made of gold to symbolize the purity and everlasting aspects of marriage while the unbroken circle of the ring represents the continuity of marriage.
Doves and Weddings
Doves are meant to represent peace and new beginnings. Doves are thought to be used as a representation of the dove that flew from Noah's ark and came back after the flood. The dove held an olive branch that showed everything was not destroyed and in fact there was dry land and trees sprouting new life.
Tuesday 24th March- Questionnaire
Video Used for Blind Drawing
Video used for Blind Drawing
Monday 23rd Marriage Story- movie plan to watch this.
Edward Fielding- 26th feb
Woven Words
Nina Jua Klein - 26th feb
Pablo Lehmann- 25th feb
Exhibitions
https://www.barbican.org.uk/whats-on/2018/event/modern-couples-art-intimacy-and-the-avant-garde
TITIAN | LOVE, DESIRE, DEATH
The six Titian paintings that make up his series based on classical myths are being shown together for the first time in over 400 years at the National Gallery. The exhibition, which features ‘Diana and Actaeon’ and ‘Diana and Callisto’, as well works on loan from Boston and Madrid, showcase his talents as an artist and as a storyteller – we can see his expert use of paint and colour as well as the way he manages to convey emotion and drama.
Angela De La Cruz - 23rd feb
At first glance, de la Cruz’s paintings appear to have been vandalised or flagrantly abused. 'Mangled stretchers, slashed canvases, twisted and violated.'
'Emotionally raw, yet canny and sharply ironic, de la Cruz confronts the ‘problem’ with painting by incorporating its very destruction into the work itself. Her works on canvas and aluminium appear fallen, gutted, crumpled, or collapsed, removed from what she terms painting's "grandiosity." '
Artist work on split ups
Lois Albinson
Focusing on the idea of neglect in environments with derelict and abandoned environments, - I see it as the idea of neglect within relationships and the close up mixture and broken materials with random bits of materials.
The different patterns and directions of knit remind me of the idea of miscommunication. The randomness in patterns and chaotic structure is symbolic to crossed and bad communication.
Touches- Fall 2014
The project will involve 5,000 pieces of wax, each molded by a different individual tasked by Savage to sculpt while considering love, jealousy, anger, pride or happiness. Completed “touches” will be displayed in fall 2014 at Edwin W. Zoller Gallery in the Visual Arts Building, where each will await remolding by a new set of hands
Andrew Groves S/S 1999 Cocaine Nights
Key Colours
From this I will plan to create my project using colours to represent my theme of marital break ups, divorce and family split ups. Red is a key colour associated with love and lust therefore it will be a main part in my samples.
The other key colours are white and pink- that signify relationships. I will plan to collect red fabric samples from fabric shops and white/cream/pink lace to juxtaposition.
Key Words From Research
Human relationships and connections
Communication and interaction
Expressing emotion
Miscommunication
Seperation
Juxtaposition
Timing
Women's Aid- Movement
Fashion show fights fear of Domestic Violence
https://www.eastlondonlines.co.uk/2011/11/fashion-show-fights-fear-of-domestic-violence/
Between the catwalk shows, which included models who have survived domestic abuse, host Nicole Biros provided stories about women the charity has helped.
Fashion takes on Domestic Violence
Fashion takes on domestic violence
Not Ready for Bedtime Players’ skit depicting scenes and reciting myths and facts about early signs of abuse.
Of course, I knew how prevalent domestic abuse is in every society, but knowing that by the time the show finished three women would have died was a shocking reality check and distressing feeling.
'That’s when it hit me, and I saw the true power of fashion. I had seen before how fashion could be a great conduit to inspiring movements, like the historic 75th Golden Globes, where nearly every guest wore black in support of the #MeToo and Time’s Up movements, or with designer houses like Prabal Gurung and Dior who are not afraid to get political with their collections. But this was the very first time I’d seen fashion as more than just a conduit for a movement. That night, fashion was the movement itself.'
'By walking the runway, these women were not only showing off pretty outfits, they were telling the world that their bodies were beautiful, and that they belonged to them, so no one had the right to abuse them in any way. They were telling the audience that our bodies belonged to us, and that it’s necessary to stop those who think otherwise. On Saturday, I felt prouder than ever to be so in love with fashion, prouder than ever to be a woman and, above all, I felt inspired to finally start making a change. '
Domestic Abuse and Fashion Design
https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-herald-1130/20170527/282303910085889https://www.vam.ac.uk/blog/dundee/emily-cassidy-domestic-abuse-and-fashion-design
Emily Cassidy has used her experience of domestic abuse for her final degree collection ( 3IN1) giving other survivors a voice. She survived a three year abusive relationship while living abroad and was diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder on her return. Her collection focuses on the visual experience focusing on the colours, objects and shapes she experiences during flashbacks and nightmares. 3IN1 name is for the fact that one in three women worldwide experience violence at the hands of a partner. – WHO
1/3 of women who have been in a relationship say they have experienced some form of physical or sexual violence by their intimate partner in their lifetime.
Ms Cassidy was in an abusive relationship for nearly 3 years, she stated when the relationship ended she found herself distant from the way domestic abuse is portrayed in the media. She said campaigns isolated her. There are one In three women who experience violence at the hands of a male partner around the world.- one billion women and one billion different experiences. The way in which she interprets her feelings and experiences into designs is key for me, with only having found written research and no visual imagery It is interesting to see how I would document people feelings and experiences on their family break ups in relation to key topics. The idea of mark making or blind drawing with someone explaining to me their history within this subject area.
She is hoping by sharing her experience other women who’ve gone through the same problems will get the help they need. She says that putting her experiences to the forefront and turning her pain into something positive helped her move on from her traumatic past.
Society's Effect on Relationships
The Artist is Kinda Present- An Xiao
social revolution- based on how social media changes our world and the way in which we communicate with each other and our priorities.
This could link to how social media can affect marriages and relationships as it stands in the way like a barrier/block and can make either partner feel neglected.
https://www.artnews.com/art-news/news/the-social-revolution-417/
Redesigning Your Room after Divorce
Substance Abuse on Families
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK64258/
Differs according to family structure.
The adult non-user then becomes the comforter for the children or family and gets a lot of pressure. Very bonded with the children
Children acting as surrogate spouses for the parent who is affected by substance abuser.
Effects the extended family too.
Some may feel the need for legal protection.
Negative on the role of modelling, trust etc.,
Reasons for drug/ substance abuse
- Negativism. In such families, the only way to get attention or enliven the situation is to create a crisis. This negativity may serve to reinforce the substance abuse.
- Parental inconsistency. family structure is inadequate. Unable to work out the boundaries of right and wrong. As a result, they may behave badly in the hope of getting their parents to set clearly defined boundaries. Without known limits, children can't predict parental responses and adjust their behaviour accordingly. These inconsistencies tend to be present regardless of whether the person abusing substances is a parent or child and they create a sense of confusion—a key factor—in the children.
- Parental denial. Despite obvious warning signs, the parental stance is: (1) “What drug/alcohol problem? We don’t see any drug problem!!”
- Miscarried expression of anger. Children or parents who resent their emotionally deprived home and are afraid to express their outrage, use drug abuse as one way to manage their repressed anger. – feelings come out when drunk or under substance abuse
- Self‐medication. Either a parent or child will use drugs or alcohol to cope with intolerable thoughts or feelings, such as severe anxiety or depression.
- Unrealistic parental expectations. – unrealistic – becomes a junkie so they cant expect anything from them.
The Use of Art in Couples and Family Therapy
Art Therapy for Children experiencing divorce.
Studies have shown that attachment difficulties and early relationship trrauma can affect a child's development and their ability to form bonds with others
Abuse in Garment and Sample Context
There was a common theme with the abuse looking how without physical evidence it isn't seen to be true, this gave me ideas for sample and garment experimentation. Experimenting with mesh fabrics and looking at how the damage would be hidden, i.e layers; where the under layer is filled with patterns and colours we associate with pain and violence and a see through ( mesh) over lay as if it is being covered- how abuse both physical and mental is covered.
A garment where the damage is hidden underneath- mesh.
I could experiment with this by using acetate and placing my potential samples underneath so you can see the design ideas for representing abuse underneath a
mesh (see through idea), to show the idea of hiding, covered and untrue until seen.
Divorce; Infidelity
Cheating Study Reveals That Designer Handbags Could Deter Infidelity
"The feeling that a relationship is being threatened by another woman automatically triggers women to want to flash Gucci, Chanel, and Fendi to other women," Wang said. "A designer handbag or a pair of expensive shoes seems to work like a shield, where wielding a Fendi handbag successfully fends off romantic rivals."
"We found that a woman who is wearing luxury items and designer brands is perceived to have a more devoted partner and as a result other women are less likely to flirt with him," Wang said. "Regardless of who actually purchased the items, other women inferred that the man had something to do with it and is thus more devoted to her."
Divorce; Infidelity
Looking at how communication and forgiveness is based within infidelity. How something so negative can be twisted and turned into something positive .
A real partnership is not giving up on each other.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/21/love-partner-affair-guardian-readers-betrayed